OK Im having a moment!!! Im trying very , very , very hard not to text a nasty message to XH. However Im starting to calm down... I've come a long way.
So without any warning, the girls cell phone service was cut off wednesday.
Xh agreed to pay for their cell phones when he left.
I got facebook messages from D13 about this over her 2 day stay. Apparently XH didn't make the payment so his service, except for 911 and imessages has been cancelled.
I had a hunch that perhaps he just took the girls off his bill but kept his own service. I sent a message today to test that out. He responded that he lost cell service but can still get imessages.
I then said to him " I don't understand why you didn't tell me that covering the girls phones was such a financial hardship for you. What does it cost for you to cover them on your plan?"
That text went out about 9 hours ago... no response of course, yet he was happy to tell me he can still get texts.
My point in asking that is that I want to cover the girls phones, and stupid me, actually had a little expectation that he would give me the amount so I could get an idea of the cost and see if I can budget it.
This man is the utmost passive aggressive person I've seen. I started to re read "Living with the Passive Aggressive Man" this week and it's just an open book of my marriage and a real manual to XH mind.
UGH.... I just gotta vent here. Ya know passive aggressiveness is crazy making. I literally CAN NOT HAVE A NORMAL CONVERSATION WITH HIM, he drops it like a hot potato.
He also seems to be giving D10 lots more information than he does to D13. Does anyone have any clue as to why he does this? D10 has always been considered the "informant" so I wonder if he's hoping to get information from her and hopes that information will get to me through her. He told her " well if I get assistant manager, I will buy you guys new phones".
I remember that XH loves to drop little hints in order for you to go " huh, what's going on? tell me more, tell me more!"
At any rate I don't have alot of time to be pissed about this. I have a dance to chaperone for d 13. Can you believe she asked me to do that? She thinks Im cool enough to invite me to do this? WOW.... I feel very honored.
I also took a CPR/AED class through work today. It feels good to learn new skills, especially in such an important area. The rules change on CPR all the time!
