Tori, No miracle partner. Just the diary app on my phone.
4. Well that's good news then. 5. Trying to keep my cool on most fronts. I have expressed many of my opinions to her. Thanks for the compliment.
So today has been uneventful. I've felt good. I've felt confident. Had an IC appt. Went well. Main thing he encouraged was to think about what kind of an that "I" want to have. No major plans for most of the w/e. Tonight we are all going to a Santa house at S7's school. Tomorrow is W day / night out. So a true test of my latest efforts to detach. Initially I was very cool with her night. She's volunteered a lot of details about her plans. Now she's thinking of taking most of the day too. Is be lieing if that didn't trigger me some. I'm not going to say anything and just go with it. Oh, I did stop and buy the "Save Your Marriage W/o Talking" book. So that will be a part of my plan while she's out.
A few more questions (in addition to the ones above, things that I haven't had time to focus on since obese more into her directly). 6. At Thanksgiving my sad didn't say anything to her. Do I mention anything directly to him? 7. I have been holding onto several stock dividend checks. Do I deposit them into one of our accounts or open a separate / secret account? I'm not being selfish / greedy, I have had these before we ever got together and legally if we D, they will remain mine. So what to do, as I'm tired of holding onto them?