"Are you advising me (or anyone else) no contact, no nothing, because it's just easier to say no? "
Ummm no. It's because that's what the other person like the XGF wanted. You can't "force" yourself onto another person and the more you push trying to be around her, it becomes creepy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.