I know of two couples that divorced and remarried. No they had nothing to do with DB. One couple, the gal's grandmother died and her ex heard about it, called and helped her work through her grief. He was very supportive without ulterior motives. They discovered, they both still had feelings for each other, they both worked on their issues and remarried a couple of years later.

The other couple, I was a kid when this all happened so don't know all the details except that he divorced his wife because he was having an affair. Figured out that he really loved his wife. He made amends, they remarried, had a baby and have been together for the second time for over 38 years.

2 is such a low number. I certainly wouldn't pin my hopes on reconsiliation. In my case ex married his affair partner. We get along fairly well but I imagine part of that is that I do not have a guy in my life that he needs to deal with. I would say don't go looking for it but if the situation arises it might well be up to the person who left, to start rebuilding things. Actions speak volumes.

kat

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