You know even though we have not talked a whole lot over the last 10-11 years I have always felt close to you, like a friend or the way a brother would be with a sister. Of course in the very beginning I liked you more than that.
I find that I am in need of friendly opinion or even sisterly advice. Do you feel up to talking with me to help me understand what I am going through, or do you think it would be too much to ask.?
I view this as a sign. I was conflicted today about my decision to set boundaries re: the spooning vs. H's bad visit home... thinking I might be unkind... sigh
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
