Speaking of snooping.

In H's email to a "business associate"

Quote:
You know even though we have not talked a whole lot over the last 10-11 years I have always felt close to you, like a friend or the way a brother would be with a sister. Of course in the very beginning I liked you more than that.

I find that I am in need of friendly opinion or even sisterly advice. Do you feel up to talking with me to help me understand what I am going through, or do you think it would be too much to ask.?



I view this as a sign. I was conflicted today about my decision to set boundaries re: the spooning vs. H's bad visit home... thinking I might be unkind... sigh


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.