The only thing that usually works (if anything will work) is to let her go. Drop her immediately, and you get a life ASAP! I know this isn't what you want to hear.....b/c you don't really think it works. But you can see what you've been doing has pushed her further away. MWD explains in her DR how this is the LRT. It's your only shot.
This is pure gold.^^^^
In the last few weeks as I have been letting my wife go, as Sandi has put it, I have noticed the change in her attitude towards me. Whether or not she is really starting to question her decisions, I don't know. But frankly as I let her go, I am not so concerned with what she may or may not be thinking. What I do know is that, mentally I haven't felt this good since BD. So letting her go has also allowed me to find myself again. And in the end I am all I have and all I control. Good luck!
Me 37/W 32 S 5 D 4 ILYBNILWY 5/12 Sep 8/12 Starting to find myself 11/12 on