Ok if that is the case why are you obssessing about H seen her? Let him do all the work and planning if those are the arragements. Loosing that much weight is not a reason for not working out. Try some weights, push ups grow some muscles. Working out produces endorphines which make you feel better emotionally. Try it. The depression may go away. No one wants to be around a depressed needy person, remember that.
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