The recommendation from the therapist is that our D does not meet anyone "new" for a year after physical separation. We both agreed to this. He is living at the OW home. Therefore, he is not allowed to take our D there for sleepovers. Does that make sense? He knows that is not good for our D either. He said that "when" he wants to take her overnight, he will stay at his moms house. But like I said earlier, he doesn't even talk to his parents right now, hasn't even told them he moved out and hasn't made any effort to take her overnight. He just comes here and "hangs out". And he spent the night last saturday. I'm not working out right at the moment, only because I lost 15 lbs when this started and am now 10 lbs under weight. I've been meditating tho which helps the anxiety. I try to look my best when he's around and when I'm out in public and I will damn well make sure my D has the best christmas ever!! H has said he wants everything as its always been so that should be interesting. I've had christmas dinner at our house for the past 5 years for both of our families and we spend xmas eve at his parents house and boxing day at his grnadmothers house. How can things be "normal"??? His inlaws don't even know we are separated!!
