The house is for sale. So sad, Family is breaking.

[FloydMan]

For me, I scored high on Make Restitution and Request Forgiveness(I just did the quiz now). Neither of which I really received from W. I have no idea what hers would be. I would love to also know her 5 Love languages. She read the book in January but she would not share with me her on-line results as I shared mine (Words and Touch). She just would say she was surprised at her results and did not want to share. She did like the book and referred it to some friends at the time and she did start to speak my languages. However, the anxiety of the A, her seemingly lack of remorse and seemingly lack of effort to build trust was too overwhelming. Just sweeping it away was not right. It’s like sweeping away 17 years of M and almost 20 years together. I think she thought I was punishing her and likely from her perception I was, but I did not look at that way. Our therapist #2 said we both feel insecure about the R and I think she was bang on. Neither of us wanted to come out on the short end of the stick. It looks like the kids and I are though in the end.
Sandi2, AnotherStander, Cadet….or anyone else too….any thoughts or advice on my sitch is hugely appreciated.