"But he needs to see what he is missing."

No he doesn't.
He's going to either want to engage or not. It's his choice. You make sure that your kids have the best Christmas ever and he'll hear about it.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER