"If my wife would have said no at any time I would have stopped." "I did not initiate the sex."
Actually that's not a contradiction. Look it up.
A contradiction is 'I did not initiate sex, but I told her I wanted to have sex" or something like that.
What I was talking about way 25's inappropriate "rape" comparison. when I was talking about the if she said no, I would have stopped. That was the ONLY way that was a part of the conversation for that limited purpose.
You were in the room? you know what my wife wanted? well, now that you know could you please tell me. It's funny you tell me not to mind read, yet you give advice from my wife based on ... mind reading. You say .. "(yes she said okay, but for all we know it was to make YOU happy)" you have no way of knowing this Mr. Bond. None. You don't know her love language.
I would ask we bring the focus back to myself. no one focus on the good things I did.
So Mr. Bond...did you never make a mistake or backslide?
