Should I be "forcing" him into taking care of our daughter? Its something I'm torn with. My therapist says no, I should not and cannot force him to be a father. He moved in woth OW so my D cannot go there and spend the night. He can come here and have sleepovers which he did once so far last saturday night. I stayed home. So I know I could go out when he is here, but then I feel I lose my chance of showing him his true family life. And the one thing I did most in our relationship was not be home. So I look at it as a 180 for me to stay home. Does that make sense to anyone? Or should my 180 now be go out when he is here? I'm willing to keep trying this a while longer, to make sure I've given it enough time, as it says in DR.
