Before I respond to all y'all's posts, I want to let you know what I'm doing:

- I'm not going to drop anything off at her workplace
- I've kept away from communicating with her in any form since Monday
- I will keep my distance

That said, with Christmas upcoming, I was planning on making her a small gift and mailing it to her (or drop it off with her landlord). I'm not the shower-the-girl-with-expensive-and-tons-of-gifts kind of guy, at least post-breakup, though in this case, I think a "Merry Xmas" text would be too generic.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112