Maybe your message made the day harder for her. Why would she thank you for that, or even respond?

I think it was a nice message, but you should have just said it if that was important to you, not to get a thanks from her. Let it go.

Sorry (((()))) - anniversaries can be very hard. I hope you do something good for yourself today.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.