Some progress after 2+ months of DBing

[Wendylon]

Regretful, my H also leaves the lights on and blinds up when he falls asleep! I'm the one who turns the room into night space and then day space again. If I leave when he's still in bed in the morning, everything stays in night mode (bed unmade and blinds down). I figure he simply doesn't care ab such things whereas I'm pretty sensitive to them so I do it for my own benefit.

I'm feeling a bit better as I'm in my favourite cafe sipping my chilli hot chocolate (my daily fix). My sister doesn't want me to take my father out for bfast tomorrow because she won't have much time with him (if she gets back tonight). I'm 100% happy with that!

To get back to H, I'm still trying to focus on my happiness without any expectations of him and watching how it eventually pans out. I love it when I catch myself and don't say something that would have annoyed him.