I guess if you are going with your D, then it will be pretty tame! lol
Don't worry about moving on right now. You just keep working on yourself and the next thing you know, you'll be there! One thing I couldn't understand was just how much life I was missing! When you're married, you get comfortable (at least we did), and you stop doing some of the fun things. I now do things like go to Nashville some weekends (it's 1.5 hours away), plan events like visit caverns or really nice and scenic walking trails, go to different events like concerts or sports...I just love living life again!
I'm sure he will try to make you look bad (to the kids) by not discussing things with you first. Just stay calm though.