too trusting - She absolutely hears bad language from my H. I have repeatedly asked him to stop. However, in this instance, the boys she was with started it. In any case, he is to blame for that.
After the argument, I spoke with my D and apologized that she had to hear us. I told her that it was wrong and that we shouldn't have spoken that way to each other. I also said that if anyone ever spoke to her, meaning the way my H spoke to me, that she shouldn't be friends with them or date them. She then said, "But then why do you love Daddy?" She's 7. I told her that is was complicated and that sometimes when you love someone you can't always be with them. I'm not sure if that was the right thing to say, but I didn't want to ignore what had happended.
At this point, I don't see another way to go except for splitting up. Unless he would go back to thereapy and take responsibility for what he has done, I can't see us moving forward. I'm tired of giving everything and feeling like I am getting little to nothing back. I want my D to have healthy relationships and need to be an example for her, because what is happening now is not healthy.
