Not much to update on, so I'll talk outloud to myself smile

Went to see my L tuesday because he had recieved an agreement proposal which my lawyer said most of it was BS...like H wants me to pay for my own lawyer fees, H gets 75% of our money that is in our accounts (assho!e) I get the house but I have to refinance it within 6 months! H gets all the tools which is alot of tools probably about $30k worth.

I don't get it at all, I've read hours upon hours about MLC and I know they say it's not about us but it's so hard to NOT take this personally...why can't I flip the switch and not give a sh!t like him anymore...think just of me and what I want and what I need, to hell with anyone else.

Sorry, just venting. Thanks snodderly for your input and advise.

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending