Thanks RT.
I'm not really sure about a new tradition. The kids want to decorate their bed rooms, so I might let them do that. Maybe I could try make eggnog lol we don't have it here.
I don't think three weeks straight would be good for the kids plus his Mum said no anyway. He is living with her so,.. It will be one week on, one week off.
I won't be mentioning the holiday and I wouldn't even be surprised if I get uninvited.

I answered my own question?

I'm not a wife anymore, Not by the true sense. I'm definitely more than just a mother. I was barley home last weekend when H had the kids.

I haven't heard from H since he left here yesterday. I guess he got his "fix"


M: 29, H: 31
D: 9
S: 8
T: 13 Y
M: 9 Y
ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012
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Worrying does not empty tomorrow
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