For me a new R either with my wife or someone else will require me to not put my value into that other person. My value is in me and a spouse is icing on the cake so to speak. True love is the absence of fear... Think about that. When we open our selves up for love their is always a chance to be hurt. However true love is the absence of fear. If WAS's and LBS's would truly embrace that concept we could possibly work out our issues. Nothing would stand in our way. Fear has governed my life for to long. Fear of loss etc...
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
