I'm just so upset because I know this is all happening because of OW. We were getting along fine until late summer.

I knew that there was a good chance that we wouldn't stay married, but I thought we could still be friendly so that I would at least have access to my SS.

I just can't understand why a 22 year old girl who he met in May can have such a hold on him that he'll try to eliminate me from his life completely. Especially when she treated him like cr@p for most of it and his real friends told him to stay away from her.

I guess I'm still trying to have hope that other LBS have experienced this and still made it through.

And I know that checking on his fb page would just make it so much worse, but I'm so curious. I'm working the next 14 days straight, so I can't afford to do that. At least I'll be busy so hopefully I won't think about it too much.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13