I'm still here. Not much has changed. He's still talking to the OW but not as often as before. The most recent conversations revolve around him telling me that he doesn't like himself for what he's doing and appreciates that I am the way I am with him, whatever that means. He's still a little bit distant at times as if he's deep in thought. I leave him alone to think and listen when he needs an ear. I get the feeling that he's wrestling with thoughts of making another trip to see the OW and I'm waiting for that conversation. We've had some times of normalcy but it's mostly been as if he's depressed. He spends a lot of time on the computer, doesn't want to eat and is generally quiet.


Me:57H:62
M:34T:35
2S,2D (grown nlah)
BD:09/2012 visits M ow
EA/PA?:10/2012
H moves out 06/2013

"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama