Thanks labug and RT that helps cause my brain is turning into a monster, I cannot stop it lol.

My d14 had a basketball game tonight and it went pretty good. During half time I went and spoke to my wife. I commented on her hair looking pretty (it did). She asked me about a text I sent her earlier in the day. Where I said that I wanted our daughter tonight because it will be over a week before I see her if not. She said I'm not trying to keep her from you. I validated and said sorry that the text appeared accusatory, that was not the intent. I just want to see her. Then, I asked her how she was doing and did she need anything like money etc. She said no and thank you for not being a jerk during all of this. I said I could not treat you bad ever. I asked her how she was doing and she said good except she has her days, I said I understood as I have mine as well. I told her that if she ever needed to talk that I would be willing to listen and not try to fix things. Her eyes water a bit and she said okay. (If she does or does not is up to her, not trying to have expectations on this one). We talked a little about Christmas and what days we want our d. Over all it was a pleasant conversation. I am not trying to read anything into it, it was what it was a conversation.


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.