Ruby, I do do a lot of GAL with my friends normally but have dialed it back lately in order to be around more. Back in Sept I went out to dinner with a girlfriend and from my H's reaction, you'd think I was going to a Chippendale's club wearing a micro mini and hooker boots. So I decided to just lay low on the GAL.
So H can go to a concert with OW and you can't go have dinner with the same sex without criticism? And you let H's criticism control your behavior?