Bruce,

I don't post to much on other threads but I feel I have to on yours.

First of all you have been given some great advice, use it. Secondly you have a great oppurtunity in front of you. There are many of us here that have really had to look deep to figure out what went wrong and even then there isn't much to go on. So all we can do is work on the things that we don't like about ourselves, because our spouses haven't given us much info.

It sounds to me that all you have to do is start acting like a man. Did you want to have children when you got married? If yes, why haven't you done anything to show that. If no, too bad. Sleep in the bed you made and make the most out it. If you can't do it for yourself, at least do it so your son doesn't end up making the same mistakes.


Me 37/W 32
S 5
D 4
ILYBNILWY 5/12
Sep 8/12
Starting to find myself 11/12 on