Andrew, I just started the book (audio version.) Her voice is a little creepy but the ideas are good. I'll let you know how it goes.
To answer your Q's: 1. Do something special and memorable. Think of what she misses the most in your M. She mentioned a Christmas Miracle--maybe something that has a hint of magic in it? 2. Yelling would scare the heck out of me. She's mentioned a few times that something will make you "pissy" which suggests she sees you as someone who gets angry easily. Be aware of your behavior. I used to get easily offended, and my H said it got to a point in which he stopped "being himself" so I would not get offended. 3. I can see you're a sensitive guy. Nothing wrong about it. Ask yourself if you're happy with your level of masculinity. Do you want to change that bc of what people say? Be independent from the opinion of others. My H was also teased about that when he was growing up. My mom still says that she thinks he's gay and that's the real reason he's left me :-) Funny.
