I really enjoyed the book, her writing style, and her suggestions. I'm on day 70. Right around day 40 is when W broke up with OM. Weird, but true. I hope you too like it and gain something from reading it.
As far I know, which isn't 100%, no mention of OM. He's not W's FB friend. W hasn't said anything about contact (texts). I'm presuming there is some, but not worried about it at this point. She doesn't live by her phone anymore and shares who she is sometimes texting. I'm trying to let it play out and hopeful OM will remain the POS and player that he is / that W sees I'm the best choice. Of not, someone out there will.
Question / statements. 1. Romantic, but not over the top, Christmas ideas? 2. Generally I haven't had any anger issues throughout our entire R, until lately of course. However I am wondering how.much my yelling, reminds W of her childhood with her mom. "Screaming Saturdays" were a regular occurrence. I can only do my best to deal / share with my anger in a heatlhy way / model it for the kids. 3. I have been teased by W and a few others for being too feminine / gay. Ways to regain my masculinity, yet remain in touch my emotions / appearance. What's the "manly" way? Side note, I 100% have nothing against GLBT orientations. Like what you like. 4. I cannot remember right now, but will add it when I think of it.
