Hi RegretfulLA, Ouch! OM??? I had tried to put that away but it is plausible and probably likely. What would she be testing me on? It seems pretty clear it is beyond test with the legal, custody and financial battles she has waged. Not sure if one pleasantry is warming up. If there is an OM in the wings, why would she come back sooner than I think? If your husband stepped up to the plate, why did you stray again though? This kinda justifies his anxiety and mine, or anyone else’s that has had this happen. You need to tell him you love him if you really do. I would love nothing more than my W to rejoin our bed. It has been 7 months in separate bedrooms. The kids tell me they are unhappy about that and also unhappy about our separate Christmas plans. They tell me but afraid to tell their mother.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.