You probably are. It's a part of the process. (over analyzing)These are deeply ingrained behaviors we are trying to change.
It's work!
I think your response was fine. You didn't tell her how she should feel or what she should do. You stated your facts. That's not the kind of decision you make in a snap.
I think it's better not to make major decision in the midst of a crisis because you're usually acting on emotion.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss