I'm going to start with telling him he needn't bother spooning with me anymore. He has told me he does it for "comfort". I'll explain that to me it means more and that at this time I don't want "more" from a man who

I can not trust and who

doesn't care that I don't trust him.

There's been no ML for a few weeks now, so I guess I don't have to address that. I suspect either

he's being "faithful" to whoever he is ML to

or he's somewhat concerned with giving me herpes, because he told me once that the ex gf - ea had herpes.

I expect that he'll tell me I'm being "dramatic", irrational and end with "Whatever" and roll to his side of the bed.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.