First, a technical note. You may need to start a new thread soon, btw. Try to keep the title of it easy to find (a sequel?) Usually 10 or so pages and they ask you to begin a new one. Not sure why but it is what it is.
Second you have the benefit of several veterans here. Take in their questions and the sage words.
As Mach said, also, no one arrived here as a perfect spouse. Understand that we understand the need for growth and introspection. It's not easy but it's not complicated. We had to simply stay focussed ON OUR WORK... and many of us were where you are now.
Or could have been quite easily. I say "there but for the Grace of God, go I", on nearly a daily basis about a number of things.
Take in the gifts of these posts. They may save your life, emotionally speaking. You'll be a better man for it.
Be a man only a fool would leave.
Know that what YOU valued in a husband, was NOT what she valued.
What she needs is what matters.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
