That's just it. Since I can't believe any of what he says anyway, it would be a futile exercise. I'm sure I would get the "I don't know."
He just got home. He is on his work laptop at the kitchen table right now. A change- I mentioned this already, but he is spending more time downstairs.
He conspicuously interacts with the boys and the dog more than me, but seems more like the old him, somewhat happy. Maybe the holidays will have the opposite effect on him than the usual.
One other thing he mentioned last night was that he fussed at S10 the other night for knocking on his bedroom door so much, but H said that he was working on his computer for work and I guess the interruptions irritated him. I didn't say anything to that.