LBS gearing up for the long haul

[25yearsmlc]

It is actually the MC she is supposed to see, but the action for me is the same, I guess...wait for her to bring it up.


the action for you is to work on YOU, exclusively. No "waiting for her" to do or say anything. Your life is not dependent on hers. The more you understand this and the more you GAL, the more you will bring to the table.

You are right about the fear for sure.

You must live in my hometown b/c Paul Mecurio is at the DC Improv all this weekend. He used to be a L and now does stand up comedy...how cool is that?

On Sunday it's "pay what you can" night, so you could get a few good humored friends and suggest w go along with you so it's not "an anniversary thing" so much as a good FUN night to laugh. Plus it's cheaper so if money is a concern, it might take the financial edge off it, like you "got a coupon" or something.

Make sense? Granted it is Sunday night but those shows are still good. Just less drunk.

But he's mainly a clean snappy comedian who doesn't get filthy.

Have you mentioned the anniversary to her? If so and if she doesn't react well to it,

then see if you can get AT LEAST a few others (avoid the appearance of double dating if you can-- IF she resists the 'date' idea. IF she does not resist it, then have fun...) IF she does, you can still do it, might even be better on Sunday night since not so attached to "the date"...

and have her join you in a group.


Bottom line, regardless of which night you go-

=== No pressure, no expectations, but still some shared fun time. That has to be the goal for now.