That's a big part of my issue because H started this adventure 14 years ago. As you see, he values my compliance/submission. That's just what I learned to do (even more than would be my nature anyway) after I found out about a PA in 1998. At the time my 4 kids were under the age of 5. H paid no support to either of his other 2 fams - so I did what I thought I had to do financially and for the "fam".
And now this is starting all over again?
There's still HUGE financial issues. But at least our kids are all older and I just don't know that I feel quite as vulnerable as before. So, IDK what's going to happen with the M.
I'm working on putting blinders on for the immediate time being. Trying to GAL and what not.
Thanks for checking in!
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
