Also, I do have a question about no-contact. Depending on the person, couldn't it be seen as (a) Wow, s/he is really okay and moving without me. Maybe I was wrong and should check up on him/her, or (b) Wow, I guess s/he didn't truly mean what they said about his/her feelings for me. Now s/he is just giving me an attitude and the cold shoulder. Screw him/her.