you sound great my dear busting!! ((((((((((( ))))))))))))) i love how you are handling H's activities with detachment... focusing on you and the kids.. you have grown so so much!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
(Tori)--Over the years I have stopped letting myself be affected by his texting. Its really his loss. I would hate to be in his shoes, and I really feel for him. It didn't seem like 'fun' texting.
The tickets were purchased on 11 Nov. What are your thoughts on that?
Thank you NG (((((((((((()))))))))))))))))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel my head clearing more and more...its amazing. and such relief. I am so thankful actually. I know this road is still long, and there is more to learn and more work to do, but I feel like I have a little torch in my hand now.
Labug-OMG about Homeland! I don't want to leave the house I just want to watch it! They can't down load fast enough lol.
SDs mantra is ALWAYS int he back of my mind. I think it has become a permanent tattoo.
Love you all.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
I think H is going to ask for D during the xmas break. I think he is just being nice until we get to that time.
I don't know why I think that. I certainly needed to let it out.
Thanks.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Keep up with GAL and detachment. Act as if but quietly prepare yourself just incase. (((( Busting ))))
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
Busting, avoid thinking about the possibility of this. You get what you think about, so don't give this too much of your energy. That said, make sure you have your finances in order and have found a good L just in case.
The tickets puzzle me. I guess we don't know what he's been through or what's going through his head.
I think that if he was going to ask for a D, he would've done it now instead of waiting for the holidays, when it would be a lot less opportune.
Although I did find out about travel. He sent me an email saying he is leaving on the 16th of Dec for an appointment to meet someone in Frankfurt, and will meet us in Hamburg at the airport on the 22nd.
He sent me the email because he will be missing our Ds end of year production (for the third time!), and wanted to inform me of that.
So, here is the mind reading bit of me...he is meeting OW in Frankfurt because the spends xmas with his family.
I don't know what else the appointment could be...I can't think of a thing. So we will see.
In the meantime he continues to be friendly. Engaging etc. Remember....its just him showing me what it will be like (from his POV) when he finalizes the D. That he can be my 'friend'. He has no desire to even think of R with me. The pull of the OW must be strong if she convinced him to miss his Ds show once again.
ho hum. Staying on the blanket.
Will come check out everyone else later today!
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Sorry...just to add, I think this ^^^ also because he emailed me. If it had just been a work appointment or something he would have told me face to face. I think he emailed because he couldn't tell me to my face.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
Hey Busting, just dropped by to lend some support and let you know I am always here (()))
Just focus as much as you can on you and kids. Thinking about what may be requires so much energy-I know. I am twisted up today so am going for a run to clear my head. I know it is easier said than done but do something lol!
