Completely agree with AS. A lot of the WAS think that the initial phase of falling in love will continue throughout the marriage, but like anything, a M grows and evolves. The fluttery-feeling kind of love is not real love. Love is when you really care about a person and only want the best for that person. Love is when you feel that person is connected to you regardless of where they are. Love is when you can forgive even when the person hurts you like no one else has hurt you. Love transcends all terrenal stuff.

Wendylon, I do see evidence that you love your H. Don't analyze it too much. Everyone has a different way of expressing love, but the feeling is the same.