Hi Boy does your sitch sound like mine in some ways. I have 4 kids. One from a previous marriage (short marriage) and my H from the first marriage had an affair. I kicked him out because he refused to stop seeing her intitially but there were other issues. My current h and I have been together for 25 years if you include dating. He says he's confused and unhappy as well my h doesn't gamble but is overbusy and he treats me like crap. I am hanging in there but more and more I think about separation because I don't like living this way. Then I think well lets see what happens Then the sh** hits the fan again.
