That's too much pursuit IMO. I think you need to pull back and let her drive the contact.
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She responded 8 minutes later, "Thank you Alamo I hope you have a good night too"
Sounds pretty much like a polite, non-committal response. I wouldn't read anything into it.
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So the million dollar question is: is it "safe" to actively (but cautiously) pursue her?
Well this IS the DB board, so I'm sure you're not expecting us to say "yes" to that question
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I'm hoping to drop by her workplace and leave some origami cats (she's a cat person) on her car with a funny note (because we love to joke). I'm not sure if she'll see that as stalking or as something subtlely romantic.
Oh wow, I don't see how she could interpret that as anything but stalkerish. Definitely do not do that. Ex boyfriend stops by and leaves paper cats and a note on car, that's scary stuff.
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Anyway, how can she completely turn off her feelings just like that, or is it?
If she really had feelings then she probably didn't just turn them off. But the only way she'll resolve those feelings is if you leave her alone to do it. Time to detach and GAL.
I hope you have a good night too"
