Hey Mr. Bond, nice to see you again! And thanks Sandycay for dropping in too!
I wholeheartedly agree with you guys about backing off. But (and you knew there's a but) what's confounding to me about my ex-gf is when she broke up with me the first time, she also initiated the reconciliation. She came to ME to ask if we could reconnect, etc.
Is she undecided? Fickle? Or has some commitment phobia?
I also need to clarify that the origami cats is just an idea. I was debating on giving a home made gift to her personally/impersonally (somewhere she'll see it or via mail). A gift that, not at face value at least, doesn't point to our relationship per se, but more towards something she likes and enjoys.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
Your XGF is smart enough to know what she wants or doesn't want from prior experience.
This is another thing that boggles me, if she knew what she wanted due to prior experience, why did she choose to see/date/flirt with me in the first place? Again, I go back to my question, is she undecided?
