It's None of my Business

[BeingMe]

Hi kml --- if there is such a clause, then I can't use it now, since I know about this. I've been to a CA and he is investigating. H didn't cheat so much as didn't do the tax returns. He paid the taxes, and this is documented. The hold-up for me is that I don't want any complications and this might be one when the D appears before the judge. H is supposed to hand in 3 years of tax returns to assess my alimony. If this isn't done, then I'm worried this will mean more legal fees, and more time lost. So, I'm trying to pre-empt that situation from happening. Not sure if I'm doing the right thing, but I do like my ducks in a row, the last one in the water before moving onto the next row of ducks.

As for credit card debt --- it's mostly work related, so I will not be responsible for that. And, he is adamant that we've been separated for 2 years, so be it. He can't come up with stuff during that time and tell me to pay up. The divorce won't be held up too long ... a couple of weeks, a month maybe.

I'm also waiting for a copy of our Marriage Cert. from our country of origin. I applied for it about a months ago. Strangely, the one I had among my documents, and never touched, has disappeared. My L says it shouldn't be a huge problem in filing, but need it for finality. So, hope that comes soon.