We did talk about it in person. I told him in an email my concerns and we talked last night. He tried talking to D15 and she wouldn't talk but he didn't keep trying.

We talked about him bringing up the past and AS I did say some of the things you mentioned and we argued a little because he said he's not doing this, but he is. Anyway, I repeated that I have come to a good place in my life and I didn't feel like he is ready to move forward, he says he is. We will talk again before he would move back. Since we were talking face to face I did get a better idea about how he "really" feels. We always have talked face to face until in the email I told him I was concerned and I wanted to talk. We did go out last night with other people but we met there since we aren't living together.

Today we have our MC appointment to see where we are. I'm sure that will be interesting. Broken, this has been going on a long time with us. We have been in MC which seems like forever and I didn't think it has worked until I did DB. We have done stuff with the kids this whole time and some stuff separately. I do feel like some dates would help.

I really think what is said today in MC will tell alot. Eventhough I don't feel like we have gotten anywhere with MC I do think I will get a better idea if he is ready.


M 48 H 50
M 25 T 27
D 20,18,15
6/11 H filed
3/12 H dropped
4/12 H moved out