Here's my latest dilemma, hoping for some advice. H birthday is around the corner. His mom is very supportive of me and thinks I should "wait it out" so she is somewhat aware of my efforts of giving H time to sort things through. Each year, we go to her house on his birthday for supper and cake. this year she said she is going to do the same thing. I have a feeling tho, that she will ask him what he wants to do first (blood is thicker than water as they say and I am well aware of this). So if I do get the invite, it will be because he wanted me to go or was at least okay with me going. My inlaws have not met the OW and doesnt really know much about her (hell it was me who told them that he moved in with her).
So im probably thinking about this too much already because I don't even know what will happen. But should I go if I get the invite? Im kind of stuck in the middle where I need to do 180s on how I treated him in our relationship which means I need to show him love and support and that he is appreciated. But I also need to follow the LRT to let him see what he is missing and giving up.
Has anyone been in this stitch before? Any advice?
I saw this posted on someone else's thread: "Love is not giving up on someone even if they have given up on you". It is so profound and has so much meaning for me.
