So last night decide to try to make dinner and it ended up being a disaster.
Why, because you called her buttercup? That's hardly a disaster. Or did you burn the food or something? Even burning the food wouldn't be a disaster, because at least you made an effort to cook (180).
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My wife comes home from work and I says "What's up, buttercup?" It's something I always used to say to her an it just kinda slipped out. I was trying so hard. she looked confused, then hurt.
She looked "confused" and "hurt" because you called her buttercup? I think you're engaging in too much mind-reading.
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I thought to apologize for saying that then I decided that I didn't really have anything to apologize for. It was a slip of the tongue.
Good, it was certainly nothing to apologize for. Seriously, it's not like you called her a b***h.
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I just said, "I didn't mean to misspeak I know our relationship is is not at that level anymore. It won't happen again."
So you decided not to apologize, and then you apologized. You're really having trouble figuring this all out.
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I thought about getting the kids to ask in a round about way, but decided that was mighty stupid.
You were right.
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I was forced to go into my car a gain to compose myself.
Spending a lot of time in your car it sounds like.
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i don't hear anything so I open the door and when I come in she stops texting and slams down the phone. what was she doing????!!!
Texting. Get used to it, WAS's love to text and they love to lock their phones so you can't see who they're talking to or what they're talking about. I think the whole sneaky secrecy thing is part of the appeal of being a WAS.
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I told her how much I missed us and how beautiful she was and she wasnt emotionally invested.
Clearly you have not been reading the DB 180 tips daily. Read them, LIVE them.
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does this happen with a spouse who wants to separate?
