You know it just doesn't seem to matter. He didn't shout so he will think he has the higher ground. I am really tired of this crap. I went to bed early and didn't say a word to him after I called him an ass about 3 times. My oldest son was over and standing right next to me when it happened. He left after that and texted me asking what my husbands deal was. He talked to my daughter too wanting to know what's wrong with H. Although this is nothing new it is definitely more frequent. You can bet I won't get an apology but he probably would want one from me for calling him an ass.