I just read your whole thread and wanted you to know. The advice given to you is good advice for me to take as well!
I know how tough things are! I think you do great job at being honest and able to describe your sitch, painful as it is.
How did the meeting with your W go last night?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway