You're so right I tortured myself for many years and dreading the day of telling our D we are getting a divorce. My D has such a big heart. Our days together will severely be limited but the quality of the our time spent is priceless.
My friends and co-workers can see a big change in me. Some told me I don't look so gray. Another friend mentioned how relieved I look.
I am not supporting divorce. My W is a good person. She's just not a good wife. Honestly, I should have been more cautious. She was seeing a counselor before I met her but he moved his practice and she never looked for another one.
Whoever reads my posts please keep on DB'ing. It prepares you for future relationships. Hopefully with your spouse.
