Do I Have a Chance?

[brokenheart71]

I am fairly new here and by no meas and expert so take my advice with a grain of salt! I would think that there are a lot of other steps you could take to work on your relationship (and his R with kids) before he moves back in. Like going to counseling, spending time as family, doing activities, spending time as a couple (without kids) just generally getting to know one another again. I would not want to rush him coming back, I'd rather wait and be sure you are all "doing it right". Especially with the holidays coming up - that can be a stressful time for many people/families. Maybe it would be better for him not to move back yet but spend a lot of time with you and the kids (assuming the older ones are coming home) - take part in your holiday traditions and maybe even come up with some new ones.

Good luck!