your close to the 10 years. Less than a month to go right ?

Then you are set for the benefits.

I think once you hit that spot that you should change the game and have him play yours for a change.

First sign of crap behavior or contact with OW... Send him packing with papers to follow.

Finally show to him you are no longer an option.

It will either wake him up or you lose a cake eating cheater.

Either way you come out ahead.


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