Are you Dating?

[brokenheart71]

Another Stander - What you said made a lot of sense to me (as usual). I wrote H a letter right when he moved out and one of the things I said was that I considered our old marriage over but I hoped he would someday consider a new one with me. He later agreed that he considered it over. Since then I have thought if he did ever decide to R it would be starting over - we would have to date first. And since he lives away from me and is dating I don't see it as breaking my vows if I dated someone else between now and then. I don't think I'll be ready for a relationship for a long time but would consider a casual date before I was. I do think at some point it would be a nice distraction to the craziness of my relationship with H - just to kinda remind myself that my life can/will be normal again someday.